An alien from Mars exploring the Earth

Today someone just told me so aggressively that I’m such a fool and a lot of people are using me. And if i continue to live like what i’m doing now, i’m gonna just be a loser for my whole life and nothing good will happen to myself.

Actually a few people already said to me I’m so dump and stupid and easy to be bossed around, but it’s still painful to hear that. What should I do?

I don’t know. I usually don’t think much about it. I just want to be a good person and helping people also makes me happy. And I also believe the universe will protect me and let me meet good people and experience good things.

But recently so many people I know keep telling I will not be respected by anyone in the world if I keep being so stupid like I am now. Now I’m a bit not confused. Do you think that it’s really true that my way of living now is just for nothing?